what I wanted to say concerning "what I wanted to say's concerning RFC"

janderson askme at me.com
Fri May 25 22:27:12 PDT 2007


davidb wrote:
> Hello [whoever posts a RFC],
> 
> _first_:
> As this is a community of various individuals,
> all with an interest in D and pursuing this interest
> in their free time, I think it best if one
> would like some advice - ask for it, in a nice manner.
> Because a certain level of courtesy will go a *long* way,
> trust me.
> If you met with your friends and you would like them
> to do something for you, would you just throw your code at them?
> No, you would kindly ask - "Hey, could you help me with this?
> I'd like to hear your suggestions."
> Remember: Nobody has an obligation to help, it's all voluntarily.

Good point.

[snip]
> 
> _fourth_:
> If english (the main language used in this newsgroup) is very
> hard for you and you don't think you can express what you want to say
> (but can read it, because you just read this post ;-)
> in a proper manner, I think it won't be a problem if you write
> in your native or another language and put a
> "PLEASE TRANSLATE ME" notice at the top of your post.

I would suggest trying English and your native language, to increase 
your chances of an answer even more.

> _fifth_:
> Sorry if it sounds a bit harsh (okay, maybe more than a bit),
> but I just wanted to point something out that is very important
> to me and because I kind of proposed the whole thing.
> I feel a bit responsible and don't want it to degenerate
> because this whole idea could really be a great experience for many
> (including me).
> That said, sorry again to the last post - see point three.
> (And btw., I never did anything with sqlite or dfl,
> so I'll pass this time ;-)
> 
> Have a good time,
> david

It's always tough trying to be helpful or provide guidelines for a group 
and not turn out the rule making bad guy.

With messages like this, I personally find its best to reply with 
something like: "Hi, I'm sure many people in this newsgroup would love 
to help.  However I believe you would get a much better response if you 
provided some context...."

One thing I love about the D newsgroup, is that just about every message 
gets a reply.  It shows that the community members are a very helpful 
and friendly group unlike some other *hum* C++ newsgroups.  That is the 
D newsgroup community generally treats their customers well.

-Joel


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