Baiting

[Paul Findlay]

Maybe a book recommendation could come off passive aggressive,
but "Leadership and Self Deception" by the Arbinger Institute is a good
read. It's helped me not to be reductionistic about people's motives and to
be wary of justifying myself.

Message of the book is sort of summed up by:
"We deceive ourselves in subtle ways into thinking that we're doing the
right thing for the right reason"
whether this be baiting people or taking the bait.

Crap, I sound religious, but it has been a helpful addition to my view of
the world.

 - Paul